What is psychism?
For the uninitiated, it can be very hard to know the difference between a psychic and a medium. In fact, many psychics don’t even know the difference between psychism and mediumship.
To help you understand the differences between the two, here’s a quick guide;
Please note we are not making any type of value judgement on psychism or psychics, just providing you with information so you can better understand psychism.
Let’s first look at the process of getting a “reading” where a person will receive messages from the psychic or medium.
Psychic Reading
A psychic reading is about you, your life and your emotions. This relates to your day to day life, the things going on around you and your desires.
The psychic works on a thought level and picks up on the physical and emotional energy that surrounds each and every one of us and is built up within our aura. Therefore they can only tune into that with which we surround our self
So why then do they appear to know so much about us?
The answer is that people attending a psychic often go with a question in mind such as “Will I get the job?”, “Will I marry this person?”, “When will my lost dog come home?”. And when we have a question in our mind, we always create our own answer to that question. Even when we think we haven’t, our hidden desire or fear is lurking in the form of the answer we either do or don’t want.
Using the example of the lost dog, then you would most likely have a strong hidden desire that it was safe and would return soon. Similarly, if applying for a job, your desire would be to get it.
So what happens is you attend the psychic and they pick up on your thoughts and emotions that you have built up around yourself (in your aura) and then respond to that by giving you the answer you have already created (desire) or that which is most powerful within your mind.
The psychic’s “reading” would tell you something like “Your dog is safe and will return very soon”, or “I see you getting this job.”
The same happens when they tell you about past events in your life, and the key is it is historical information stored in your subconscious
As you can now see, you are projecting your thoughts onto the psychic who can tune into that which is strongest on this level.
The confusion that often arises is where the psychic purports to give a reading about a person who has passed over. Although the message may sound credible because they can give a lot of detail about the person, all this information is coming from the “sitter” (the person getting the reading) as it is all stored in their thoughts / memory.
But what is happening when the psychic tells you things you don’t know or predicts future events that come true?
Some psychics are able to move on from the psychic level to the mediumistic level. So although they have started on the psychic level, as they attune more during the sitting, their mind is able to tap into a higher level of consciousness.
Mediumistic Readings
A mediumistic or spiritual reading is about somebody else who has passed over. It is NOT about you, your life and your emotions.
The spiritual medium aims to provide evidence that there is life after death and therefore when they claim to have made contact with a person who has passed over, they must build their case to support their claim.
One of the first things the medium must do is describe the person (contact) in a manner that leaves the sitter with no doubt about who that contact is - otherwise there is no point to the reading. In doing so, they should aim to provide a name (at the very least the first name), description of their appearance, relationship to the sitter, type of work they did, how they passed, where they lived etc etc. The more detailed this information, the better.
As much of this information will be known by the sitter, they must then give something the sitter did not know that can be verified through other means, otherwise it can easily be claimed to be a psychic reading.
Here is a good example of how this might work - this is a real life example;
The medium told the sitter the address of where the contact had lived as a child. The sitter confirmed it to be correct except the street number was wrong. The medium said the contact was adamant the number was correct. Some time later, the sitter looked up some old records and was astounded to find the street numbers had been changed a short while after the contact had moved out of the house and the number as given through the medium was actually correct.
As the medium had been able to give an accurate and detailed description of the contact and then provide other supporting evidence that the sitter did not know, it does build a strong case that contact was made.
One thing a true spiritual medium will not do is give “life advice” to the sitter. This is not their purpose.
Check List
This is a quick check list you can use to help determine what type of reading it is. For the sake of this, we will use the term “medium” to describe the person giving the reading, however you must decide of they are a medium or psychic.
1. How does the medium describe the contact?
Do they give an accurate description of the contact or are they vague? “This person is in a military uniform.” Vs “I have a man by the name of Stan. He was about 5′ 9″ in height, passed at the age of 47 and served as a Sergeant Major in the British Army during WW2 in the Transport Corps and I’m getting Egypt”
2. Does the medium “fish” - ask questions instead of giving information? ie “I think this is your auntie, is she sill alive?” Vs “I have your auntie here, her name was Mable and she was your father’s younger sister.”
3. Does the medium give a worthwhile reason for the contact wanting to communicate? ie “They have come just to say they love you”. Vs “This person wants you to know that he did see you drop $2-00 in the fountain outside the church after the funeral and had a laugh when your daughter fell in trying to retrieve it”.(evidence of continuity of life)
4. Does the medium make sweeping statements /questions instead of being specific? “Are you thinking about changing your job?” Vs “This person tells me you have been wanting to change jobs for about 4 months and have submitted three applications in the last 2 weeks.”
5. Does the medium give you advice? (they shouldn’t) ie “I’m being told you should get your car serviced and the brakes checked”.
6. Was the reading about you or about giving evidence of life after death?
“You thinking about going on a holiday this summer.” Vs “This person enjoyed going away on holidays to the beach with you and the family.”
This check list is fairly broad and not meant to be a definitive method of determining the differences.
In the end, use your own common sense and do not act on anything a psychic or medium tells you without proper consideration. In the end, you have free will and you should use your own common sense.